Someone once told me that boys love em and leave em...their mothers that is. And it got me thinking...as I am recovering from a c-section, dealing with sore nipples (sorry any guys reading this), milk dripping everywhere, hormones raging...that the reason this is true about boys is because they never experience what their mom goes through. They can never comprehend the sacrifices and pains of a mother. This I have begun to reconcile because I think that how the boys are raised will determine their involvement in my life later and I don't accept this love em and leave em attitude.
I decided I love having boys (don't get me wrong...we will still be trying for a girl!). But boys are fun and adventurous. I don't have to make sure they look pretty when they leave the house...cuz they're boys and it's acceptable to have a little bit of messy hair on occasion :) I don't have to take them potty in public! I hate public bathrooms! These are bonuses that are magnificent and sometimes overlooked by moms who have boys.
So for now...I am content with my two boys. The brother dynamic is something I am excited to develop and nourish. I pray every day for these 3 things:
1) That they love Jesus every day with all their heart and never have the need to experience the world...how awesome to have no worldly baggage...Steve and I will give them enough baggage to carry I am sure!
2) That they marry women who love Jesus and loves our family!
3) That they know we did the best we could and that our family stays tight forever :)